feat(vps): production deployment automation

[fuzc4t4-v2]

• Interactive deploy.sh with menu-driven operations
• Single .env file configuration (no hardcoded secrets)
• Auto-generates APP_KEY, JWT_SECRET, DB passwords
• Database backup/restore functionality
• Systemd auto-start configuration

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